Victoria Joy in “Sex Work and Partner Violence: How We’re Forced To Negotiate Our Own Abuse" at Tits and Sass today (via marginalutilite)
Reblogging this as a reminder to myself that it’s not okay that he calls a whore when he’s angry.
grin and bare it all: against liberal conceptions of sex work (via allslost)
AN INCREASINGLY EMOTINALLY INVASIVE PERFORMANCE OF ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT. SHOTS FUCKING FIRED.
wow I’ve never seen it put into words like this but that’s exactly how I feel
I hated all my customers when I was stripping, but the ones I resent the most even today were the ones who felt they were owed my ~*~real personality~*~ because we had a drink together and talked about something slightly more intelligent than small talk.
who wrote this and do they want to marry me? It’s as if they’ve succinctly summed up in a few sentences all my furious pages about portland strip clubs, hobbyists, and the removal of fourth wall!
this is BRILLIANT
Like we could be talking about this but anons wanna be like “I don’t think your job should exist” and then I gotta have the same basic ass conversation again that if they had READ the prohibitionist/abolitionist links on the side (or up top if you’re on mobile) they would already have gotten their answers to and then some and saved us a some time and now let’s go back to this please!
The changing face of the sex industry and what it offers/promotes itself as offering (bc you can tell me all you want that what gets you off is an authentic experience of my authentic pleasure but that doesn’t mean it’s happening son).